No woman , No Cry

If you have gone by the title, you have got it right :). How many times we all say behind every successful man there is a woman, but how many are successful is the central question ! And behind every unsuccessful man there are many ! And to aggravate the problem how many of those handful of successful people are happy!!

I have a girlfriend but she is still a friend, I have a girlfriend but she is more than a girlfriend ! , I do have a girlfriend but I do need another, I do have a girlfriend but there is also another ! , I don't have a girlfriend ! , I had a girlfriend ! , I no longer need a girlfriend ... These are few reasons which have made us shed lots of tears without glycerin that too in real life ! Problem Woman ,Solution may be Woman.

( To digress a bit all the problems listed above are only of very select problems of select youth , the list is bound to get endless if I were to write even 10 percent of all the problems and anguish of mankind owing to women )



The mere existence of this saying in a male dominated patriarchal societies( Which I seriously doubt) , does underline the power of feminine and the helplessness of man (No need to elaborate all our ancient myths are full of war stories which were conceptualized by ladies that too by the legal uneducated spouses of the kings and in the days when words like girlfriends weren't even conceived ! The days when women were not aware of all their ways they had been endowed with !). You may disagree with the former (Power of feminine) but you too are helpless .

So what do we do? Is there any savior? NONE, for all spirits in the heavens are afraid of feminine power(Apsaras to be very precise ! ). All sedulous yet abortive efforts and maneuvers of ancient sages of imposing penance to overcome woman factor were made futile again by women (Apsaras) make the story even worse,sympathetic and pitiful. And not much to our surprise women who claim themselves to be of epitomes of Pity , sympathy, affection, seem to be enjoying the whole episode !!


PS: Why on this earth this afternoon again a guy(sincerely yours) has turned a rebel, simply because he too now feel the pain deep in the heart. But he does know this again will be a toast for their rejoice ! ! Heavens save HELPLESS us ! Oh sorry ,Women save the helpless us (No direct confrontation :()

You and I in this beautiful world

Don't know but feeling good after so long. Much because listening to this hutch commercial for the 10 time in a row. Seriously creativity at its best , and also because just finished an intriguing and a grueling debug(For those who don't have much background in chip design or software ; debug is a process to find out silliest of the errors of humans or soft wares) after a week for which I had been working almost everyday for more that 12 hours . But now feel this sheer momentary joy was worth all that drudging. Everything looks so beautiful when I have nothing else occupying my mind.

The pug running with kid reminisce me of those carefree child hood days when there was nothing to worry about ( However even today there aren't many ! ) Running down the road with friends , getting drenched in the rain, splashing that dirty water on others and what not , are all those days now bygones ? May be, I can have some of that fun again but the intensity cannot be the same for sure. I even wonder how I went into such retrospective or pensive mode, probably sometime even the sudden respite from work or exhaustion is good enough to unwind. In fact of late only few things can make me think and reminisce ,and even on the fewer occasions I think for a while, otherwise in this fast paced life which full of dirty debugs things simply come and go without any notice. But this commercial some how has become an exception.

I am forced to think that these landscapes in the video are not a very alien setting and in fact one can find such blissful panoramic views in most part of India and that too very close around him , in his very every day's life and place ! , but alas we all have become kind of blind to the beauty which is naturally present, the appreciation for blue skies , green grass, rising and falling sun which we happen to see many times in a day never comes. We are too bogged down in our own problems that things which used to fascinate us not very long back , no longer have any appeal , it's not that we have become more matured or grown up but it's that we no longer have time to appreciate such things. We do appreciate these things when we pay hefty amounts to go on a wild excursion, when we are basking on a beach totally cutoff from the work , but I wonder why to miss the everyday's occasion when we see the sun rising , when we come across some small stray puppy or kitten ? Why to turn a blind eye at that time ?After all you and I have such a beautiful world !